Miriam Deane
2nd wife of John Wing
While we know nothing about John Wing's first wife, we do know some things
about Miriam Deane. Miriam was born about 1630 in Plymouth Colony. She was
the daughter of Stephen Deane and Elizabeth Ring.
There are some reports that state that Miriam was the widow of John
Smith...and there may be some credence to that since she left her estate
to Dean Smith, her great nephew by her niece Bethia Snow who was married
to a man by the name of John Smith, possibly a nephew of Miriam's first
husband.
It appears that even though Miriam Deane might have been married before
she married John Wing, she died without children of her own to leave her
legacy to. Miriam would have been about 17 to 20 years younger than John
Wing. If we do believe that the reference in 1692 to "Old Goody Wing
buried" refers to John Wing's first wife then we have to presume
that John Wing was easily in his late seventies when he married Miriam
Deane...Miriam would have been in her early sixties when she married John
Wing. If all of these facts are true (and at this point there is no way to
prove them) it would probably signify that the marriage was a marriage based
on companionship and convience.
All indications are that Miriam had a fairly significant estate of her
own. Her father , Stephen Deane, was known as a man of wealth and her mother's
2nd husband, Josiah Cooke was a man of some means in his own right. There
are also indications that Miriam was not married to John Wing long enough
to bond to his children in any significant way...in fact it appears that
there may have been some animosity between her and John's children;
"Further more my will is that whereas on a contract of marriage with
my now wife I did Ingage her a Room to built att the end of the house where
I now dwell but to prevent further strife my will now is she being
so content that if she shall live longer than while my afore Named Grand
Child John Wing arrives at the age of twenty years that then my now wife
Miriam Wing shall have twelve pounds paid her out of my estate....to build
her a comfortable Room to dwell in at the end of this house wherein I now
Dwell."
Miriam Deane Wing died in 1702 and it appears that she left all or
most of her own estate to her great nephew, Dean Smith of Chatham, the son
of her niece Bethia Smith. The inventory of her personal property
was taken in January, 1702-03, and its value was assessed at seventy-eight
pounds, twelve shillings and two pence." Kenelm Winslow was her
administrator.